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Have you tired relaxation tapes or hypnosis? I use 1/2 the daily dosage of Zoloft prescribed & it works, but I'm single and if married that may not be answer. Are you OK with milk products. Experts say that isn't it, but often I have attack after milk products. It is worse now because so many products have milk solids in them. Leave off all milk products (read labels)for a month and see. Also contact Anxiety Disorders Assoc of America if you have not already! Good Luck!