Linda
It's really difficult to find a good pain management doctor. You need someone who specializes in pain management without going directly to something like morphine. Have your doctors tried antidepressants? Some diabetics who have nerve pain from their diabetes are helped by antidepressants which also helps some people manage back pain. What about exercise like swimming? Physical therapy? Nerve blocks? Hypnosis/meditation/relaxation techniques? All of these can help with pain management if done consistently.