Chris
Roz, I have no personal knowledge regarding the situation you mention, but I was so moved when reading your post I wanted to write. I'm sure either the doctors, nurses or hospital social workers should have some suggestions for you as to a support group and/or a way to become more knowledgeable regarding Ray's condition. Also, you might want to try Christopher Reeve's website for additional information. As a mom, (my son is also named Ray) my heart goes out to you. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.