Kimb
What is frightening her? She did not get to be this scared for nothing. She is looking to you for protection against something... It could be as simple as something she saw on TV that you missed and has left her horrified. Real or unreal...both are scary in the mind of an 8 yr old child. Or it could be a real person either in your home or near by... If she won't "talk" to you I would seek medical help! There are counselor for children. Look for clues...What does she draw when you give her blank paper? What does she see in the clouds? What Exactly does she think is in her closet? Ask open ended questions, not "yes" or "no". Let her answer them even if she struggles. Don't suggest answers, they must come from her. Sit very close, hold her and let her KNOW that whatever it is she fears YOU will NOT let anything bad happen to her. Let her know that she can tell you ANYTHING and you will not get mad at her!! Getting to the cause, reassurance from you, and trust on both sides is really all we can do as parents. Get all the help you both need!! And don't put it off!!!!!! Good Luck!!!!!!