Johnna
The only advice I can give is to make sure you get a second opinion. If they differ, get a third. Make sure you do this until you get two or three opinions that are consistant. We neglected to do this for my husband one time, and he has regreted having the surgery for years. It was for a different condition, but I feel that this is an important step for any condition! good luck to your mother, and Good luck to you. I hope you have a beautiful and healthy child, and get exactly what you want. There is nothing sweeter than giving birth to that baby and have the doctors hand him/her to you!