Linda
Linda: Sorry to hear that you, & your husband are both in bad health. I to worry about my son if something should happen to me, as\ he is almost 11, & has aspargers also. I live in IN. We have alot of good facilities in regard to mental health, which are state funded. Wouldn't it be a better idea if your grandson could be adopted out to a family who will except his handicap? I have thought of that idea myself verses a facility. If you ever need a friend to talk to don't hesitate to write. Would be nice just to share our thoughts about our children. Kathy