kathy
Re: autism - Read everything you can on the subject.Comb the web for all info.You didn't say in which state you live, but in ours - Oregon - we have an autism council which gives out info and help when asked. Hook up with any available resource in your state or county. There's much to be learned and the landscape of autism changes as time goes on. Don't wait for someone to lead the way while you are waiting for your tests etc.