Cathy
Sorry you are going through this. I say take her into see your family Dr and tell him/her how she is. I thought it was just a stage with my daughter and she got so depressed she started saying how she didn't want to live, it hurt too much inside. She is now on an antidrepressant and has been going to counseling and is doing wonderful! I have my happy child back! Teenage depression is nothing to ignore, because they have a hard time seeing beyond today and knowing tomorrow will be better. Good luck!