maryann
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i have a boyfriend that had a larynx removed in 96 and then 98 he had the soft palate removed and is also a drinker the last month he be really go down hill about 10 days ago i noticed that his pee was a dark brown and he couldnt pee very well sometimes he went and other time he couldnt go i took his pee to be checkedand they told me that his pee was tea color his bilirubin was high or large his ketones was 40 i know that he is very weak cant stand on his two feet i cant not get him to go to the doctor at all i tried to get him to go but he keeps tellng me to forget it i need help i know he is going to die on me he is still peeing the same way he hasnt drank for about 10days he is drinking water now but nothing is changeing please tell me what i am looking at now so i can help him best i can he also sleeps alot not eating i tried to give him ensure many time but it goes right thro him sometimes he dirty in his pants and dont even know it so can you tell me what to do and maybe how much time he has he wont go to the doctor he is 71 years old please help me take care of him best way you think without going to the doctor he is alsodehydrate and has no gallbladder had that taken out years ago thank you sunshinegirl6200@aol.com