Lindsay
I'm only 13 years old but I think I can be of some help. I was a very early bloomer and it was extremly hard because none of my friends could relate. But my mom always was there, even when I was angry or upset, most of the time at myself for thinking I'd done something to bring on the early devolpment. I don't think your daughter is spoiled, I think shes a scared child with no idea of whats happening to her, I really think you should explain, she needs to know this happens to everyone. Help her, don't act like shes sick. If you remember going through puberty times that by 100 and you'll know how she feels. Email me; I'd be glad to talk to her or answer more of your questions. Good Luck, You are A Good Mom