Kim
A very simple blood test will tell you one way or the other....What is stopping you from seeing a doctor or clinic? I do hope that you have not been sexually active since suspecting you have a problem!!!! aslo the sores around your genitlas could also be herpes...Again with out consenting a doctor you will never know. There is no cure for Herpies but there is treatment. Syphiliss can be cured with treatment. If left untreated it will effect your brain and you will die after going insane. Go get checked out! Kimb